Love

Love according to the dictionary

a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.

2.

a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.

 

So love is actually a good thing right?

Why in some relationships it starts out that way but have end up having a bad relationship? Some have an abusive relationship. They beat them and tells them that I'm sorry and I love you and that they would never do it again. Why does this cycle of abuse ever happen. It could be because of alcohol, drugs anger management issues they want control or it's a learned behavior. The bottom line is no one has the right to put their hands on you.

 

Love should feel good. You love and always want to be around that person but make sure it's not in an unhealthy way but you enjoy being with them, not living in fear with that person you feel comfortable. Accepting that person the way that person is. The person would want the best for you and support you. The person is like a friend but you are attracted to him which makes it romantic love.

 

I don't know why abusers hit on people they love or if they even love them at all but screaming at them, yelling at them, hitting on them is not the way to show that you love them.